One of the sexiest elements of BDSM – to me – is the bondage element. First there is the simple beauty of what can be done with flesh and rope. Then there is the very real sensation of being restrained and at someone else’s mercy.
True bondage will of course require trust. But I am happy to play with Velcro or clip on cuffs to begin with.
I like this as a summer outdoors fantasy. It involves this fictional park where no other person ever goes… so it may be best for me to switch the fantasy indoors.
Indoor bondage fantasies would be great using a four poster bed, or to be a bit more modern a large board room table. The intricate bondings are something I would try with an experienced Dom/me, including suspension. But to start, the simple bonding of tying me up spread-eagle so that I cannot close my legs or bring down my arms… my body is completely exposed to what you want to do to it.
Blindfolds heighten the fantasy as do gags.
I have tried this fantasy a few times but with limited success. The trust was not there, and the tying was done with that in mind so that I could escape should I want to. I’d like to establish a trusting relationship so that I trust you to tie me up so that I can’t escape and give you free reign of my body.
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