Tuesday, 2 March 2010

Abuse vs BDSM ~ an Uncomfortable subject

Interesting debate and exchange of ideas.

“It has been my observation that passive aggressive behaviours and hypocrisy is pretty rampant in BDSM, actually very few people are honest with themselves let alone others. Most communityleaders exegerrate and lie by omission allowing peopel to believe things that are not true.”

“If consenting means you don’t starve you ARE going to consent. If consenting means you can claim societally conditioned worthiness you will consent. If consenting means you confirm your deep seated self hatred you WILL consent.”

“This slave doesn’t think a Dominant is desensitized from harming a sub. Or, at least, they shouldn’t be. Even a sadist should know when the masochist isn’t receiving pleasure from the pain.”

“This is going on all around us. People don’t want to say anything bad about anyone else, even when asked directly for a reference, because they’re afraid of the backlash from within our very community, never mind the police as poor Natalya_Rose encountered. They don’t even want to admit that there’s a problem at all in the community, never mind name names or discuss specifics.”

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