One of the things I do very well is teasing. And I use the teasing in part to have him divulge his ideas. Whether anything comes of it is totally under my control. And most certainly some things are in the be careful what you wish for category. It has happened that things were moving faster than he had thought up the idea. Plus of course this is new material to be used in teasing sessions.
As you are aware our kink life has been put a little on the back burner. Sure we have been doing the odd thing in shopping and a hairdressers appointment will be coming up this month. So it is not like it is flat on it’s back. However it is not in the gear where we both feel we’d like it to be. So our main focus has been what is for us relatively low key play. Both to keep the power exchange dynamic going and to have some much needed fun in a stress full time.
Over the last few weeks/months the boy has told me in several ways where is fantasy is taking him. He uses his blog, pictures/weblinks and discussions as they arise. Some of these fantasies I can implement quite easily, even now. For instance buying a mini bikini after some teasing and some mild Oh please can I begging. Truth be told I loved the idea. Just had him buy a different bottom than his original idea, because I liked it better. Other things will have to wait a bit more due life interferences. Both the boy and I are looking forward to the time when I can start pushing his boundaries more again. Until then, we just have to have discussions about his be-careful-what-you-wish-for list. The list that is an effective tool in teasing and for me to take his some of his fantasies and make them into my wicked playground.
To make a point here though. Quite a few ideas in our minds are of the same making. We are well matched in that kink area so the line what is his imagination and mine is blurred. It is not as if his fantasies are what is guiding me. I sure use them. I mean seriously if I find them attractive and the suit me, why reinvent the wheel? I make them mine. I doubt that they ever work out the way he had imagined them. There is always my sauce added for additional spice and flavour 
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